Why Buy The Cow When You Get The Milk For Free? 

In the figurative sense, men will always pay for Sex. I am not saying that they are buying prostitutes or whores but nonetheless, men are still paying for sex. For example, when a guy goes on a date, he typically buys dinner, the movie and possibly desert. When you add up the money spent, the average total is around 22.00 per meal, 18.00 for drinks, 16.50 for the movie and probably another 14.00 on ice cream. So in total he has spent around 92.50 for this one date and probably didn't even have sex the first night.

There are rare occasions where a man can get the milk, I mean sex for free. However I refuse to count rape as one of them. No seriously, there are occasions where a guy can come in after another guy has already put in the leg work and paid for everything but she bangs the other guy. Why? Because she was just using him for a free night and the other guy who she wanted to bang in the first place wouldn't buy her dinner! So yes it is possible to a bar, pick up an already tipsy girl and get her to go home with you to do nothing but smush. This is a rare occasion and normal men will always pay for something even if they are not dating the chick.

So let's say a guy gets exclusive with a girl and they are officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Well that changes nothing as it matters to the literal sense of the money scale. The man is still paying for sex because he still takes his girl friend out, buys her dinner, buys movies, clothes, trips to the beach etc. It never ends. Sex is bought and paid for all the time its just in different inoffensive ways that do not trigger the need for legal action. However, buying a whore can be argued as being no different than wooing a woman, you just give her the money directly instead of paying for dinner, drinks, movies and clothes.

The bottom line is, a man never stops paying for sex even when you are exclusive or married. You still have to by dinner, buy drinks and entertain them so that they will still sleep with you. So the expression, "Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free" should be a bit more specific. You might as well buy the damn cow so you can get the tax write off of for being married. Anything less and you are losing money on the deal. So to sum up, buying a whore is no different than getting married. You pay for the whore and you pay for your wife in order to have sex. Try not taking your wife out or doing anything with her and see if you still get laid. Nope.