Break Up Letter From A MATCH.COM Psycho Chick I would like to set the context of this break up letter sent via email to the man who sent it to me. First of all, this girl winked at him and he winked back. They started chatting and eventually that led to First Substantial Contact resulting in a face to face dinner date. Everything seemed normal until she revealed she wanted him to meet her mother after having known him only a week. If that wasn't strange enough she said this to him via phone call after their first date. If that wasn't even more amazing dragon enough, they only saw each other 6 times before she wrote him this letter below. My this guy's biggest complaint about this chick was, "She was never available to do anything but wanted to talk on the phone and send emails". The Break Email
"OK, so I got this e-mail at about 6pm today and contemplated just deleting it, rather than allowing my inner bitch to come out in a reply. Since I am sitting here responding, I guess you can tell which decision I chose!
The bad "vibe" to which you refer was there almost immediately - or at least with in the first 2 weeks - when you decided to point out each and every flaw I had rather than trying to compliment and encourage a relationship to grow. I was impressed by your piano talents, then quickly turned off by them, again, due to your persistent insults about my playing or lack of desire to play - ie, "Here. Play this one. It looks easy enough." For the record, you could slow down your playing and be more meticulous instead of tripping all over the keys in an attempt to play music that may just be above your level of technique. Notice how up until now...All I said to you was encouraging things and compliments about your piano playing abilities!
I wonder how things WOULD have turned out had you taken one second to tell me I looked nice just one time in 6 weeks. "You look fine." is not a compliment, by the way!! I also laughed out loud when you said "you and I are busy busy people." WHO is busy? YOU!?! I felt like every waking minute you wanted to spend with me - I almost felt smothered. I would have liked you to take some initiative to do something on your own now and then...maybe even plan something for the two of us to do! The State game was awesome!!! - but that was it - no other attempts were made and we only went to the game because you got free tickets! Way to make a girl feel special! I just felt like you were waiting for me to dictate every minute of every day that we were together - I don't WANT to be the man in a relationship! If I did...I'd date GIRLS.
The breaking point, though all of the above led to the culmination of my annoyances, was the whole Halloween costume debacle! If you didn't want to go, you should have told me to begin with. I am not your mother and should not have to hold your hand for 3 weeks reminding you to get your costume or show you where they are in the store. Did you want me to try it on for you, too? I cleared my entire Saturday for you since we hadn't seen each other all week, and THAT was the day (4 hours before the said event) that you chose to run around Raleigh like a chicken with your head cut off frantically trying to find a friggin costume! Then...you come over and you're falling asleep on the couch before and after the party! WTF!? At that point, I had pretty much made up my mind that there wasn't chemistry to begin with and any hope of it was long gone at that point. I spent 3 hours in the car talking about it to Lindsay and Matt trying to figure out how to spare your feelings. They told me to say it straight... see above.
You can vent back to me if you'd like. I know this is a lot to hear and I am sorry if any of it is overly hurtful. I am not trying to berate or belittle you, but I wanted to "TALK" about this at least on the phone to which you declined this morning. Herein lies the result.
Take care." His Follow Up "So I guess a blow job is out of the question? Call me. PS Matt is gay. "The Elder" Comments Let's face it, girls get on match.com because they failed at meeting people in a more direct dialogue environment. These same girls have also had their weddings planned when they were 7 years old. In this particular break up letter, you can see the girl tried to get too involved before even knowing the guy she was getting involved with. So, she blamed him for her own short comings which have failed prior to her many match.com failures. Seriously, if you can not say the things she said in one paragraph why bother getting that specific if you know there is no point to explain yourself? Exactly, the girl is obviously fubar crazy. |
